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BOB HORNSTEIN
Week One - Introduction
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This facilitators guide will walk you through how to get your group started. You should plan to hand out the book and discuss - "How to get the most from this book and study guide." (Page XXi)
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Week Two - Chapter 1 (Four Foundational Truths)
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This Facilitators guide will help you understand the material and direct your group to get the most from the Study Guide.
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Week Three - Chapter 2 (The Nature of Conflict)
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Week Four - Chapter 3 (Conflict Resolution)
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Facilitator Guide:
This guide will help you get the most from your study of Validate!
There are fourteen meeting guides with tips and helpful information to promote a stimulating learning experience. You will also find helpful websites, articles, and videos to equip you to better lead your group.
There are even suggested short video clips to show during the meeting to help start the conversation, direct the discussion, or bring a conclusion to the study.
How you use them is up to you, but you will have have lots of suggestions for each study.
Week Five - Chapter 4 (Invalidation vs. Validation)
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Week Six - Chapter 5 (Escalation)
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Week Seven - Chapter 6 (Withdrawal)
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Week Eight - Chapter 7 (Demandingness)
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Week Nine - Chapter 8 (Boundaries)
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Week Ten - Chapter 9 (Negative Perceptions)
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Week Eleven - Chapter 10 (Forgiveness)
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Week Twelve - Chapter 11 (Repentance)
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Week Thirteen - Chapter 12 (Real Love)
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Week Fourteen- Chapter 13 (Real Life)
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